Thinking of Marrying Abroad? Common Questions Answered

July 19, 2012 in Stephanie Bishop - Weddings Abroad Advisor, Weddings Abroad by JenniBush

How do I start to plan my wedding abroad?
Start by thinking about the type of ceremony you’d like. If you’re looking for something different from the “norm” then consider finding a wedding provider in an unusual country, or one that offers ceremonies in unusual locations (underwater, bungee jumping etc).
Also consider the time of year when you wish to marry. Many tropical countries have hurricane or wet seasons so make sure you know what the weather will be like before you travel (and buy your dress).

http://www.marryabroad.co.uk/time-of-year-to-marry.shtml

Can I get married in ANY country?
No. Some countries have residency restrictions which mean that you can’t get legally married there. Although you can always have a blessing in any country and legally marry at home (you don’t have to tell anyone!).
For example, in France you have to be resident for at least 40 days, and in Spain resident for at least 2 years before you can legally marry.

Will it be expensive?
It’s really up to you. The wedding itself doesn’t need to be expensive, although you will have to pay for travel and accommodation of course. Getting married abroad can be as expensive or as cheap as you like. (just like a holiday).

Will it be difficult to arrange, as I’m in the UK?
It’s usually easier to hire a wedding planner in the country in which you wish to marry to take care of all the local arrangements, as it can be difficult to find suppliers and ensure quality when you are hundreds or thousands of miles away. A good wedding planner is like an accountant, by employing them you should save more money on the wedding than their fee costs you. And they also take care of the stress so you can enjoy the build up to your wedding even more.

Will I need to go to the country BEFORE the wedding?
It’s really up to you, and how far away the country is. Most couples do visit their wedding location at least once before the day in order to meet the wedding planner personally and to take a look at venues. It’s easy to do this in Europe as budget airlines are plentiful, but if you’re planning to marry further afield you may prefer to rely on Skype to “meet” your planner and see venues.

What legal stuff do I need to do?
Legalities vary per country, but generally you will need the following:
 Full birth certificates showing both parents’ names
 Passports
 If divorced, show your original final divorce papers
 If widowed, show the death certificate of your former spouse
 If you have changed your name then show legal proof of the change

(Bride and groom must not be related by blood, marriage or adoption) and you may also need to obtain certified translations of all documents if you are marrying in a country where English is not the official language.

And you may need to also provide some of these documents
Certificate of No Impediment to Marriage
This can be obtained from your local department of foreign affairs, register office, or your embassy in the country in which you are getting married.
Apostille Stamp
Some countries require foreign legal documents to be stamped with an apostille which then makes them legal documents in that country. A solicitor can do this for you for a fee.
Certificate of Single Status/Sworn Affidavit that you are free to marry
These are similar to a Certificate of No Impediment, but instead you have to swear you are single in front of a legal representative (solicitor/notary).

http://www.marryabroad.co.uk/how-to-get-married-in-europe.shtml

Will it be legally binding in the UK?
Generally if the wedding is legal in the country in which it took place, then it is legal in the UK too.

Will it be the same as a wedding here? Church, speeches, cake etc? Or can I do something bonkers??
It’s your wedding, you can do whatever you wish! Bonkers might be easier in some countries than others, and if you are religious then you may wish to marry in a church in your chosen country – it’s totally up to you!

What are the pros?
 have your wedding, your way, without pressure to do what your relatives want
 invite less people
 have a truly unusual wedding that isn’t just like every other one you’ve been to
 cost – keep your costs down by going away (and combine wedding and honeymoon)
 weather – choose a country with good weather and you won’t be worried about rain on your wedding day
What are the cons?
 some people may feel offended that they can’t afford to come (this does sometimes happen)
 you will have to trust your wedding planner more as you won’t be there in person until the actual day

http://www.marryabroad.co.uk/home.shtml

 

Weddings Abroad
Stephanie Bishop

Stephanie is Director of Marry Abroad, she will be sharing her expert tips to help you if you are thinking of planning a wedding outside the UK.

 

 

Weddings in Paradise – The Bahamas

June 19, 2012 in Stephanie Bishop - Weddings Abroad Advisor, Weddings Abroad by JenniBush

If you’ve ever dreamt of getting married under a tropical sun with the sea lapping at your feet, or exchanging vows on a catamaran, or tying the knot underwater, or even marrying at a lighthouse with the sun setting behind you, then perhaps you should have entered the Bahamas 16 Weddings competition last autumn? The prize for 16 lucky couples was to get married on one of 16 Bahamas islands.


The winning couples were chosen by a panel earlier in the year, and on 16 May 2012 they all married on their respective islands at 16.00 (4pm).


Here at Marry Abroad we were lucky enough to be invited to the wedding of Carla and Daniel at the lighthouse on Hope Island, part of the Abaco islands in the Bahamas. We travelled as a guest of the Bahamas Tourist Office to follow the competition winners and to discover the delights of this island chain.
With 29 inhabited islands, and 661 cayes and islets, the Bahamas stretch from close to Florida all the way down to the Turks and Caicos islands. The 16 couples each had chosen an island on which to marry, and each had a different type of ceremony. These ranged from an underwater wedding on Grand Bahama, to marrying at 12th century Augustinian cloisters on Paradise Island, to a Junkanoo (street party) wedding full of colour and music at the Sheraton in the capital Nassau.

We went to Carla and Daniel’s Lighthouse wedding on pretty Hope Town in the Abaco islands. This small island is surrounded by little coves and beaches and the buildings are all decorated in pastel colours. It’s a gorgeous place for a relaxing wedding or holiday.

Unfortunately it rained on the day of the wedding, but a quick move of location to a dock in the harbour worked well. The couple said their vows with the lighthouse behind them and the dock was decorated with local conch shells, palm leaves and flowers.
After a celebratory glass of bubbly the new Mr and Mrs went back to their resort on a golf cart decorated with a “just married” banner and beer cans attached to the bottom.
It was a lovely day, despite the rain. And when it’s 27c rain doesn’t matter as much!

The 16 couples married on the following islands.

BIMINI- Karén and Kane from Leeds held their “LOST IN YOUR EMBRACE” underwater themed wedding where Hemingway wrote “Island in the Stream”

CAT ISLAND – Joanna and Peter of Scunthorpe, had a “Top of the World” themed wedding at the The Hermitage, a medieval-style chapel

SAN SALVADOR – Teresa Maria and Tarik of London retraced the steps of Christopher Columbus when they said ‘I do’ in their “LANDFALL ELEGANCE” wedding theme at the historic spot where Columbus is said to have first landed in the New World

THE ABACOS – Carla and Daniel of Baldock, Hertfordshire celebrated their “LIGHT UP MY LIFE” theme wedding against the backdrop of an iconic candy-striped Elbow Cay lighthouse.

MAYAGUANA – Claire and James of York, said ‘I do’ in their “MONUMENTAL LOVE” themed wedding at the historic monument commemorating the landing of the first rocket that took colour photos of Earth in 1959.

CROOKED ISLAND – Felicity and Andrew from Amesbury, Salisbury had their “SEASHELL BEAUTY” themed wedding walking up an aisle decked with local seashells on a pristine white sand beach

THE BERRY ISLANDS – Jade and Mikhail of London, celebrated their “NAUTICAL LOVE KNOT” ceremony on a beautiful catamaran surrounded by stunning turquoise ocean teaming with marlin and tuna.

THE EXUMAS – Grazina and Ruslanas of Edinburgh celebrated their “SEASIDE SERENADE” theme wedding in a garden gazebo, with fuchsia roses and magenta orchids and pink paper lanterns

LONG ISLAND – Sarah and Colin of Blackpool, held their “TROPICAL DREAM” wedding on the world famous soft white sand beach at the Stella Maris Resort

ELEUTHERA – Jill and Philip from London dipped their toes in the sand on one of the most historic islands in the Bahamas, following in the footsteps of Mariah Carey

HARBOUR ISLAND – Laura and Richard of Fareham, Hampshire held their “PINK SAND PARADISE” themed wedding on this quaint island known for its pink sand backdrop.

NASSAU – Clair and Jason of Rhyl, North Wales experienced the exuberant Junkanoo dancers in colourful costumes, masks, vibrant decor, music ‘rush out’ to celebrate their “COLOUR ME WITH LOVE” themed wedding

PARADISE ISLAND – Adele and John of Balby, Doncaster exchanged vows with glamour and style at the Augustinian cloister (One & Only Ocean Club) under an elegantly draped four-post arbour

Weddings Abroad Expert Stephanie Bishop

Stephanie is Director of Marry Abroad, she will be sharing her expert tips to help you if you are thinking of planning a wedding outside the UK.

 

 

Popular Wedding Destinations

May 23, 2012 in Weddings Abroad by JenniBush

Popular countries for a wedding abroad

In our experience European countries tend to be most popular with UK couples. It’s partly the fact they’re closer to home, and therefore less expensive in travel costs, but also, we have some fantastic wedding locations in Europe which cater to all kinds of wedding, so it makes sense to look there first!

Our top 5 countries on Marry Abroad last year were :

  • Spain,
  • Greece,
  • Italy,
  • Canada
  • Thailand.

So the top 3 were from Europe (closer to home so save money), Canada is good for winter weddings, and Thailand is a good value tropical location (and a bit different).

 

From Weddings Abroad Expert – Stephanie Bishop

Stephanie is Director of Marry Abroad, she will be sharing her expert tips to help you if you are thinking of planning a wedding outside the UK.

 

10 Myths to Marrying Abroad

May 19, 2012 in Stephanie Bishop - Weddings Abroad Advisor, Weddings Abroad by JenniBush

1. It’s easier to get married abroad.

Well sometimes it is, but sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes you can’t even marry somewhere unless you are a resident – it really depends on the country. In Las Vegas you can just show up with your passport, but in Spain you have to have lived there for 2 years. So double check the paperwork before you decide where to marry. Marry Abroad’s Legalities pages can help.

 

2. You do all the same things as a wedding at home (invite all your relatives and friends, wear the same sort of dress, have a big reception).

There’s no etiquette to getting married abroad – you just do what you want to for your big day. Don’t feel that you have to replicate the same traditions as you would at home.
3. You should have a beach wedding.

Beaches are great but you can choose from a really wide selection of different ceremonies, so branch out and have exactly what you want. In a tropical garden, up a mountain in the snow, underwater, in a palace…..the choice is yours.

4.Having a wedding abroad will upset people not invited.

Perhaps it will, but if your nearest and dearest really love you then they’ll want you to have the type of wedding you want, not just do something to please them. You can always have a big party when you get home!

5. You only marry abroad if you want a cheap wedding.

In fact there’s an even wider choice of wedding ceremony than at home, so it’s suitable for all budgets, large or small.

6. It’s always sunny and warm in the summer

Not entirely true! In the Caribbean their summer is also the rainy season (June to November), and remember that the seasons are opposite in the southern hemisphere, so a July wedding in South Africa will be cold. Make sure you check the forecast before you book a summer wedding and expect sunshine or warmth every day.

7. A wedding abroad isn’t legal at home

In general, yes it is, as long as it was conducted legally in the country in which you married. So as long as you follow the marriage laws of the country in which you exchange vows then you’ll be fine. Although bear in mind that if you marry in a non English speaking country you’ll have to have your marriage certificate translated to use it at home.
8. It’s cheaper to plan your wedding abroad yourself

That depends on whether you have good contacts in the country you wish to marry in and/or speak the language. If you want to do it all yourself you can, but it’s generally easier (and cheaper) to hire a local wedding planner. They can get you the best deals on everything, and best of all, they know the best places to tie the knot.
9. You can fly home using your married name

 Well, maybe. Unless you have changed your passport before you got married then you can’t travel on your married name. Most brides wait until they get home to change their names on legal documents, but if you really can’t wait then speak to your local registry office and they can advise how to change it before you marry.

10. You don’t need wedding insurance if your ceremony is abroad

Getting married abroad will still cost you, so it’s worth taking out specific wedding abroad insurance, as well as travel insurance, to cover you if things go wrong.

 

 

From our Expert on Weddings Abroad - Stephanie Bishop

Stephanie is Director of Marry Abroad, she will be sharing her expert tips to help you if you are thinking of planning a wedding outside the UK.

 

 

 

Five top Tips for Weddings Abroad

May 8, 2012 in Weddings Abroad by JenniBush

Our top five tips for getting married abroad

  1. Do your research. If you want to marry in a country which has a residency restriction you can either move there, or do the civil part at home and have a non-legal blessing in your chosen country (much easier!).
  2. Make sure you have the time to get the right paperwork. Some countries require translations and apostille stamps, and some countries require paperwork issued within the last 3 months.
  3. Don’t feel you have to invite everyone you know – many couples have a small wedding abroad and then have a party when they get back for everyone else.
  4. There are no “traditions” for a wedding abroad, so do what you want to do, not what you think you should do.
  5. Hire a local wedding planner. They will have the contacts on the ground in the country and will be able to save you money and pull everything together quicker than you could. They also speak the local language, which helps!

 

From Weddings Abroad Expert – Stephanie Bishop

Stephanie is Director of Marry Abroad, she will be sharing her expert tips to help you if you are thinking of planning a wedding outside the UK.

 

How hard is it to tie the Knot Abroad?

April 27, 2012 in Weddings Abroad by JenniBush

How easy/difficult is it to tie the knot in a foreign country?
It can be very easy (in Las Vegas you just need ID), or very difficult (in France you have to live there for 40 days before you can legally marry),


Where can you find information on the legalities for marrying abroad?just make sure you read the legalities before you commit to getting married somewhere.

www.MarryAbroad.co.uk provides marriage legalities for each country so you’ll know what you have to do to get married there. And if you want to marry in a country which we don’t feature then email us on request@marryabroad.co.uk and we’ll see if we can help.

 

The Foreign and Commonweath Office also provides excellent information on getting married abroad www.fco.gov.uk

How do you make sure that the marriage is legal in the UK too?
Just remember that generally if the marriage is legal in the country in which you get married then it is legal in the UK.

One extra tip for you – if you have a wedding abroad in a non-English speaking country then you will have to get your wedding certificate translated when you get home in order to use it.

From Weddings Abroad Expert – Stephanie Bishop

Stephanie is Director of Marry Abroad, she will be sharing her expert tips to help you if you are thinking of planning a wedding outside the UK.

 

 

 

What to consider if you dream of marrying abroad

April 20, 2012 in Weddings Abroad by JenniBush

So, you’re engaged, you’ve got a lovely large sparkler on your ring finger, but you’re still not sure if you want to do the “big production” at home. How about getting married abroad?

Exchanging vows abroad with only your closest friends and family by your side has become more and more popular over the past few years, and here are some reasons why!

Why decide to get married abroad?

  • Well you can “escape” the relatives and have the type of wedding you want, not one to please your family.
  • By combining your wedding and honeymoon you will save money (if you want to!) as the average UK wedding is £20,000 but the average wedding abroad is £6500 (*source, Mintel Feb 2011)
  • Your wedding day is supposed to be the best day of your lives, so why get stressed about it? By going abroad you get to have a relaxed wedding and holiday (sometimes with friends and family, sometimes without) and enjoy yourselves!

What do you need to take into consideration when getting married abroad?
There will be some things that you will have to plan for, just remember that the paperwork can take some time – leave at least 3 months, preferably 6 months, to plan your wedding.

Did you know that if you are taking guests then you can save money by booking them as a group on airlines/hotels? (usually over a certain number of people travelling/staying on the same itinerary). And some hotels offer “free” weddings if you book a certain number of people to stay there for a certain number of nights.

Also remember to take wedding attire suitable for the weather – getting married on a tropical beach in a 3 piece suit can make you very hot!

 

From our Expert - Stephanie Bishop

Stephanie is Director of Marry Abroad, she will be sharing her expert tips to help you if you are thinking of planning a wedding outside the UK.